you know what is a very common thing i hear people whine and complain about . It is about the fact that they don't have enough time in their lifes to do whatever it is they want to they do with their lifes.  Someone , a cambridge scholar i might add, once said to me , "your problem is , you want too many things at the same time" 

I mean , who doesn't . We are all wildly and crazy ambitious people who want whatever we set our eyes on . Perhaps we don't really need it , but society has since altered our thinking to convince us that we should have balanced university life , have strong involvement in school activities , do academically well , network within and outside of school . So , yes . i do want too many things at the same time . But i think the same applies to a lot of other people . We are mostly in the same state of constantly chasing our wants . 

My point is that since we are all in the same state and we are all given the same amount of time, how we decide to run it is entirely up to us . No amount of whining will ever change that fact and no one will really empathise , not because we not in the same state as you are , but more importantly , we should recognise there is such a thing as choice . 

We choose what projects we choose to undertake, we choose how much time to allocate to a certain activity, we choose what should be prioritise , what is important to us . Do also note that choice always comes with consequence and if you don't even consider the consequence and expect people to empathise with your stupid choice, people will obvious just laugh in your face and call you stupid. If i priortise a night of getting drunk of champagne , then i must be prepared to face the consequence of doing extra work to make up for that night of fun , so on and so forth . 

So , from now onwards , i shall not whine that i not enough time . because , it is what i make of it . I just want to manage my life properly . 

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